Stop Dreading the Room. Start Owning It.
Unlock Your Speaker Impact So Every Room Leans In
The private coaching arc for professionals and leaders who want to feel better speaking and become better speakers,
You don’t have to hate speaking to know you want more from it.
Do any of these sound painfully familiar?
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SPEAKING STILL FEELS HARD
All eyes turn toward you and suddenly your heart’s racing, your mind goes blank, or you’re talking twice as fast as you meant to. You know speaking matters. You’d love for it to feel a whole lot easier.
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YOU’RE FINE SPEAKING. YOU WANT TO GET BETTER
You’re already speaking in meetings, networking rooms, presentations, maybe even on stages. Now you want to sharpen the way you use your voice, your body, your message, and the room.
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YOU WANT TO KNOW WHAT TO WORK ON
Not another random tip to save for later. You want to see what you’re already doing well, spot the gaps you can’t see from the inside, and know what to practice next.
...Sound familiar? Good. Keep reading.
Knowing what you mean and communicating it clearly when it counts are two different skills.
And that gap shows up fast.
You can know your work inside and out and still find that the way you speak doesn’t always match what you know.
Maybe you speed up when all eyes turn toward you. Maybe you add three more sentences after you already made the point. Maybe nothing feels “wrong” at all you simply know there’s another level to how you use your voice, your body, your message, and the room.
That’s the part most of us never get to see from the inside.
✨Once you can see what you’re actually doing, you know what to work on.
You + 'Unlock Your Speaker Impact' = everything you need to make this click!
You can be completely fine talking with someone one-on-one… then something changes when more eyes are on you, the answer matters more, or you’re stepping into something bigger.
For some people, you feel it immediately. Heart picks up. Breathing changes. The words you had a second ago suddenly disappear.
For others? Nothing dramatic happens at all.
You’re speaking. You’re comfortable. And afterward you think, Hmm. I could’ve done that better.
Maybe you missed a cue. Could’ve paused there. Made the point sooner. Used your voice differently. Been more intentional with how you showed up.
The shift happens fast. Seeing it usually comes later.
And that’s where this gets interesting.
Because when you can actually see what you do, you know what to practice, what to strengthen, and what to try differently next time
But don't just take my word for it....
Dr. Raquel Muller
Debbi Mahilum is the real deal.
She brings practical knowledge of neuroscience, evidence-based techniques, and a military background that creates focus and discipline around your goals.
She combines that expertise with tremendous warmth and grounded presence, making the coaching experience feel both safe and productive.
With Debbi, you're guided by clarity & compassion at every step. If you're looking for a coach who gives you the insight and the tools to understand yourself and move forward, look no further.
Steve Kuyatt
Working with Debbi is one of the best things you can do if you want to make a noticeable change in what you do and how you do it.
Through our sessions, I developed tools and practices, including something as simple and powerful as the pause.
I use that now to shift my mindset instead of getting stuck in a perpetual loop of paralysis.
I have a greater sense of self, see things as opportunities rather than barriers, and know what to do to create a positive and productive outcome rather than getting sucked into a cycle of doubt and uncertainty.
The way you speak when it counts can change.
- Maybe speaking is the part you’d love to feel better about.
- Or maybe you’re already comfortable doing it and thinking, Okay…how do I get better at this?
- Either way, we start with you.What are you already doing well? What changes when you’re presenting, answering on the spot, or making a point that matters? And what do you start noticing when you get a chance to see yourself from a different angle?
Once we have that picture, we can decide together what’s worth strengthening, shifting, or practicing.
Imagine...
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Walking into a room, any room, and feeling your feet on the ground instead of your heart in your throat.
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Finishing a presentation and having three people find you afterward because they want to keep talking.
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You walk into the meeting, the pitch, the presentation, the Zoom call, whatever the moment is, and feeling more deliberate about how you use your voice, your message, and your presence.
And when somebody hands you the mic for something bigger? You’re ready to make the most of the moment.
What's Included
#1- Six 60-Minute Private Coaching Sessions Built around YOU
No cookie-cutter speaker formula. We start with how you speak now, what you want to change or strengthen, and the situations that matter in your actual life.
#2- Your Communication, From More Than One Angle
Your voice. Your body language. Your message. Your presence. How you think on the spot. How you connect with the people listening. We look at the pieces that matter for you, rather than assuming everybody needs the same thing.
#3- Real Practice With Real Feedback
We use recordings, conversations, presentations, and opportunities you’re already having, so the work starts showing up in your actual life right away.
#4- WhatsApp Voice Note Support Between Sessions
Have a question after a meeting? Notice something during a presentation? Try something we worked on and want to talk it through? Send me a voice note. You don’t have to save everything for our next session.
#5- Your Personal Speaking Lab
Three levels of real-world practice built into your daily life, not only formal speaking moments. They all become places to try what you’re learning, notice what changes, and keep building from there
How do I know if I'm ready?
This is for you if:
- You understand that not speaking is costing your business, and you're ready to start.
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You want speaking to feel better, become a better speaker, or both.
- You're willing to be seen, recorded, and honest with yourself about what needs to change.
- You’re curious about what you’re already doing well and where there’s room to grow.
Not for you if:
- You’re looking mainly for a script to memorize or a presentation written for you
- You’re looking for something you can log into, watch on your own, and call it done.
- You’d rather avoid the room than learn to own it.
- You're still waiting until you feel ready before you start.
- You're hoping it gets easier on its own eventually.
A Note From Debbi...
I want to tell you something I don't share lightly.
In high school I was that person. The one who started shaking before they even stood up. Shallow breathing. Voice caught in my throat. And when I finally got up in front of the class, I cried. Not once. More than once. The fear wasn't just nerves. It was something deeper. I didn't yet know who I was when people were watching.
Fast forward a few years and I was standing on actual stages. Acting. In accents. In front of hundreds of people.
Same person. Completely different experience.
What changed wasn't a technique. It wasn't practice. It was identity. When I joined the military I didn't just change my circumstances. I began to think of myself as someone completely different. Someone who was capable. Someone who showed up. And the more I visualized and embodied that person the more I became her.
The nerves didn't disappear. They just got reassigned to someone who could handle them.
That's what this work is really about. Not perfecting your delivery. Not memorizing a script. But helping you find and embody the version of you that was always capable of this.
I've lived this arc from the inside. That's why I know it works.
And that's why I built this program.
You've read this far for a reason.
You're READY. Let's do this together..
Six private sessions. Real-time support between every one of them. A complete communication and presence framework built around how you speak, what you want to strengthen, and where you want to go next.
Built entirely for you.